Do you sometimes struggle to know your own truth (over societal expectations and your need to perhaps fit in) and communicate it in a powerful way? Here is my journey...
đ I have always been drawn to truth or dare since I was young. I was often aware of the beat of my own heart and the direction and rhythms it wanted to lead. This contrasted with what I observed or was told to be okay or acceptable by society. When my inner calling came to explore the world across the Pacific Ocean and leave my Swiss tribe behind, against popular opinion, and at the cost of leaving what I knew and those I loved, another spectrum of playful perceptions and pathways of personal, professional and spiritual growth appeared. However, somehow I knew that if I didn't have myself, I didn't have anything at all. And yet if I did, I could connect with the WHOLE without losing myself.
đ Metaphorical Conversation with Dad:
Having had a close relationship with my parents, especially my dad, I remember a conversational metaphor I shared with him, after he tried to persuade me to live closer to home.
Here it goes:
After listening to his thinking, understanding and perceptions, I shared with him the example of Jesus staying behind in the temple. Mary and Joseph had made their way back home from Jerusalem, when they realized he was missing. Upon hurrying back to find him, his reply was simply: "Why were you searching for me? Didn't you know I had to be in my Father's house?"š
I was not using this per se in a religious context, but it was my way of being level-headed through thoughtful perception with my dad, letting him know that I was doing the same. I felt that this metaphor landed in a place where he could grasp its greater concepts. As a realistic optimist, I had always been led by passionate inspiration. The apple had not fallen far from the tree.
In this blog, I will explore the courage to speak and liberate through truth, and how it has shaped my life and worldview. I will also discuss the importance of living your truth with wisdom and flexibility, and how it can help you overcome challenges and achieve your goals. I will use historical and personal examples to illustrate my points, and share some insights and tips on how to speak and live your truth.
đ¤ The Courage to Speak and Liberate Through Truth đ¤
The courage to speak and liberate through truth is an honest one. Free will does not forsake you when you stand on its footing, its "stakeholding" grounding and firming your foundation from which all seeds can germinate and lift off into a life of their own calling. Your truth does not have to be black or white, as life is often perceived, but it can span across a spectrum of colors and variations not found in the dull and shortsighted opinions looking for validation.
Validation is always found in the external, but not awake, unlike the master who knows his inner landscape and territory without sacred abandon. You do not need to seek validation from others who do not see the truth as you do, but rather find belonging within yourself and those who share your vision.
For one who seeks the truth will learn that even though it can be a tough master, it will not forsake you, and you will find your own way; open and allowing others to follow the tethers of their own call in the making.
đŞ Living Your Truth with Wisdom and Flexibility
Furthermore, living your truth is not about understanding or pleasing someone else's truth, but about honoring and expressing your own. It is about being wise and flexible enough to adapt to the changing circumstances of life, without compromising your core values and purpose. It is about being authentic and courageous, even when it is hard or unpopular; it is about being true to yourself, and living a life that reflects that.
đď¸ A historical example of someone who lived his truth
with wisdom and flexibility was Marcus Aurelius, the Roman emperor and Stoic philosopher. He wrote a book called Meditations, where he shared his personal reflections on how to live according to the principles of Stoicism, such as wisdom, justice, courage, and self-control. He faced many challenges and hardships during his reign, such as wars, plagues, and political intrigues, but he tried to remain calm and rational in the face of adversity. He did not seek validation from others, but followed his own convictions and values.
đ Questions and Tips to Speak and Live Your Truth
As we approach the end of 2023, it is a good time to reflect on our work life and how it aligns with our truth. Many of us may feel discontent or dissatisfied with our current situation, whether it is due to stress, boredom, conflict, or lack of meaning. How can we speak and liberate through truth, and create a more fulfilling and authentic work life in 2024? In this article, I will share some questions that can help you evaluate your work and life and identify areas of improvement or satisfaction.
I will also discuss the importance of living your truth with wisdom and flexibility, and how it can help you overcome challenges and achieve your goals. I will use historical and personal examples to illustrate my points, and share some insights and tips on how to speak and live your truth.
These questions can help you reflect on your work life and identify areas of improvement or satisfaction. They can also help you create a more truthful, clear, and authentic work and life vision that inspires you to take action and achieve your desired outcomes. đ
đ Questions for Introspection:
As 2023 ends, reflect on your work life:
Identify sources of discontent and their impact.
Reflect on coping mechanisms for discontent.
Consider the benefits of speaking truth and practical applications.
Define core values and assess alignment with work life vision.
Outline realistic short-term and long-term goals.
Examine metrics for success and progress.
Reflect on work-life balance and energy prioritization.
Evaluate relationship nurturing and support.
Consider adaptability to changing work circumstances.
Reflect on learning, growth, and overcoming setbacks.
đ Here are some Tips to help you Speak and Live your Truth:
Be honest with yourself and others. Don't hide or deny your feelings, thoughts, or opinions. Express them respectfully and constructively, without fear of judgment or rejection.
Listen to your intuition and follow your heart. Don't let others tell you what to do or who to be. Trust your inner guidance and follow your passion and purpose.
Be open-minded and curious. Don't assume you know everything or that you are always right. Seek to learn from different perspectives and experiences, and be willing to change your mind when presented with new evidence or insights.
Be flexible and adaptable. Don't resist or fear change. Embrace it as an opportunity to grow and evolve. Adjust your plans and actions according to the changing circumstances of life, without compromising your core values and purpose.
Be authentic and courageous. Don't pretend or conform. Be yourself and live your truth. Take risks and challenge yourself to step out of your comfort zone and pursue your dreams. What`s the worst that can happen?
đ In Conclusion:
Speaking and living your truth is rewarding, unlocking your potential, overcoming discontent, and inspiring others. As Marcus Aurelius wisely said, "Accept whatever comes to you woven in the patterns of your destiny, for what could more aptly fit your needs?" This blog aims to help you discover and express your truth, living it with wisdom and flexibility.
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With love,
Daniela Bumann
Your Truth "Liberator"
